Feeling Lonely and Isolated as a Believer Who Prays in Tongues

I recently watched a documentary that really resonated with me. It focused on the issue of loneliness and analyzed the pandemic of loneliness among people. This reminded me of a time in my life when I felt very lonely.

It was a difficult experience, and I used to pray in tongues a lot during that time. This documentary triggered me to think about the connection between praying in tongues and loneliness. In this article, I want to discuss two angles that I have personally observed.

Social isolation

One of these angles is the isolation that some people experience because of their belief and practice of praying in tongues. These believers may find themselves pushed out of social circles, families, or churches simply because they believe and practice praying in tongues.

Many times, your faith will lead you to the wilderness, where you will feel alone. However, God promises to always be with us; never leaving or forsaking us.

The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.

Deuteronomy 31:8

It occurred to me that people who pray in tongues may feel isolated, even if they are surrounded by others. This is because they desire to have someone who can truly understand their experiences and feelings related to praying in tongues.

When I first started this ministry, I didn’t realize that there are people seeking understanding in the gift of praying in tongues. Unlike me, the Lord knew there are people who did not have fellowship groups that teach and practice the gift.

Through the documentary, I have learned that loneliness can stem from a lack of connection with others, rather than simply being physically alone. Therefore, if one finds themselves as the only person praying in tongues within their family or fellowship, they may feel isolated.

However, as human beings, the desire for human connection and the opportunity to share your experiences with others is a natural inclination. This is why I feel compelled to speak out and provide a platform for those who may be in similar situations, seeking fellowship and understanding of praying in tongues.

I am grateful for God’s grace that has enabled me to open up about praying in tongues, despite my initial fears of backlash.

In my personal life, there were moments of loneliness during prayer, as my family members were not spiritual enough to a point of praying in tongues.

While my previous fellowship embraced praying in tongues, there were still personal concerns that I struggled to share. In those moments, I turned to God for guidance and support.

I am thankful that the Lord guided me to you all, allowing me to freely share things I would normally keep to myself.

Personal struggles

The second angle is the personal struggle one may face in life while praying in tongues. It can be difficult to understand or know how to deal with these issues, even when surrounded by friends.

Despite appearances, there may be a deep sense of emptiness that can only be filled by reaching out to God.

In my own experience, I found myself feeling lonely and unfulfilled despite having everything that should make me happy. I felt a deep sense of loneliness and emptiness that others couldn’t comprehend. The only solace I found was in praying to God, as I had no one else to turn to.

At times, people appear to be doing well on the surface, but inwardly they may be struggling with issues and concerns for which they seek answers.

While I often emphasize the importance of praying in tongues, it is important to acknowledge that there are times when one may feel frustrated despite praying in tongues and doing all the right things.

These internal struggles can be difficult to address, as they often require someone with a deep understanding or personal experience to relate to. I have personally experienced this.

I remember having a conversation with a friend who had approached me with an issue that required prayer and counseling. After providing the guidance, I mentioned to my friend the importance of seeking help when needed.

It was during this conversation that I revealed my own feelings of loneliness, emphasizing that while others sought my help, I had no one to turn to for support.

Despite feeling frustrated at times, I continued to pray as instructed by God, seeking solace in prayer to alleviate my loneliness.

After prolonging my praying in tongues sessions while seeking God, I noticed a significant change. I started feeling less lonely and relying less on the company of my friends.

Despite being highly sought out for counseling and leading fellowships, I still found solace in retreating to my room to pray in Tongues. This brought me immense satisfaction.

Note that there may be challenges you encounter during your journey of praying in tongues that are difficult to share with others. In such cases, it is only God who truly understands you. Pour your heart out to Him because only He can provide the understanding you need.

It can be frustrating at times, but ultimately, it is a personal experience that must be embraced and navigated with faith.

I hope this serves as encouragement to those who feel lonely because of their praying in tongues lifestyle. Keep the faith and remember the Lord rewards those who diligently seek Him. Blessings!